Can two truths be held at the same time? Can snow be good and bad? Can heat be welcomed and oppressive? The answer is yes to all of these. Snow can be fun to play in and beautiful to look at, while being dangerous for drivers and inconvenient for businesses. Heat can be an opportunity to enjoy the outdoors and go swimming while also being physically draining on people. It’s all a matter of perspective. How one looks at something comes from their background and their point of view, or their loyalties to one side or another.
This week we read וארא/VaEra which marks the beginning of משה/Moshe/Moses’ leadership and conversations with פרעה/Pharaoh. It also contains the first seven of the עשרת המכות/Eseret HaMakot/The Ten Plagues. These “plagues” were instruments of freedom for our people and they were immense punishments for the Egyptians. The plagues were miraculous and awful all at once. When the water was turned to blood, the Egyptians were left with no way to stay hydrated as water is an essential substance of life. For three days they had no water. At the same time, the Israelites had access to drinkable water and thus we didn’t experience the pain but saw it from afar as outsiders. This isn’t to say the plague was wrong, but what we saw and what those on the other side saw were two different things. The plague was two things at one time: a miracle for us and a punishment for them.
One thing can be two different things. Two truths can, in fact, be true at one time even when they directly conflict with each other. On October 7, 2023, the Israeli people and the Jewish world was rocked by atrocities that had no two sides. Murder, rape, terror and kidnapping do not have two equal perspectives. While one side might claim they’re fighting for their people, they have no moral right to claim such tactics can be exercised to seek freedom. Over 1,200 people were killed that day. That’s not to mention the scores that were injured. Over 250 were kidnapped. The victims included children, women, men and the elderly. The victims included Jews and non-Jews. The victims included Holocaust survivors. Nothing that happened on October 7 could be justified by a legitimate quest for freedom of self-determination on the side of the Palestinians. Anybody who says otherwise is lending support to the terrorists.
When Israel began to strike back to defend itself, we began to see multiple truths. We saw that Israel had the legitimate need to take Hamas out. It had the legitimate need to get its hostages out of hell. It had the legitimate need to bring safety and security back to its citizens. At the same time, it’s also true that there are innocent Palestinians in harm’s way. It’s true that not all people in Gaza support Hamas. It’s true that too many people have died in the crossfire and we all should mourn those facts. All these statements are true and they may or may not conflict with each other.
This past week and weekend, we learned of another time where truths can conflict with each other and yet be true. The cease fire hostage deal is both great and awful all at once. Let me begin by saying what it’s not. It’s not a “Hostage Exchange” deal. The Israelis are not “releasing hostages”. They are being blackmailed into allowing guilty people, some with blood on their hands, to walk out of prisons because they have no other choice. As moral people, and as Jews, we have a responsibility to do all we can to free our hostages held by others. That means sometimes we’re forced to make choices that are awful and hard. It means sometimes we’re forced to negotiate with a gun pointed at our heads. It means sometimes we’re forced to break the basic rule that we must never negotiate with terrorists. Watching Hamas celebrate this ceasefire as if they’ve won tore our hearts out. Watching Iran claim that the “occupying forces” are in retreat and being defeated went against all we believe in.
The reality is in their warped sense of reality, tens of thousands of dead people is a win. In their worldview, children and women and men and elderly people, Jewish and non-Jewish, being brutalized and murdered, got them a “win”. At the same time, watching three women: Emily Damari, Romi Gonen, and Doron Steinbrecher being free again to live their lives is something that made our world seem okay again. Both of these things are true at once. The Israeli people fulfilled a sacred obligation, and Hamas celebrated their “victory”. Israel brought back three innocent people and allowed 90 people, some guilty of attempted murder, to walk free. While this batch of prisoners were not the ones with blood on their hands, by the end of this “exchange”, Israel will be forced to release people who should be incarcerated for the remainder of their lives. We’ll celebrate innocent people reclaiming their lives and they’ll celebrate the release of people who have murdered the innocent. And yet, two truths will exist side by side.
We’ll celebrate redeeming our captives. We’ll celebrate our reestablished deterrence in Gaza and beyond. We’ll celebrate the ability of Israelis to go back to their lives. They’ll celebrate their “victory”. They’ll celebrate their perceived triumph over the “occupiers” and the “great Satan”. It’s an imperfect deal. It’s a good deal and a bad deal. It gets us what we need, and forces us to give too much. It’s both good and bad and that’s all true at the same time. Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Hearshen
Building Blocks Sunday School will take place at St. James United Methodist Church this week to participate in our Building a Better World community service project.
Join us and do a Mitzvah! Advanced registration below is appreciated.
Trinity Table is currently collecting the following items
to keep our neighbors warm:
Coats, gloves, hats, scarves Sweatshirts & Hoodies Blankets Underwear & Thick Socks Sweatpants, Jeans & Belts Tennis Shoes (new or gently used) Hand Warmers
Sisterhood Mitzvah for Rebecca's Tent
We're proud of the following volunteers for providing a week of dinners to Rebecca's Tent, a homeless shelter at Congregation Shearith Israel, including:
Ann Benator Carol Benator Grace Benator Shelley Cooper Charlene Galanti Lisa Galanti Nancy Galanti Raye Gray Clare Habif Robert Habif
Karen Leff Janet Seligson Heather Rabinowitz Sophie Rabinowitz (pictured above) Michelle Rich Marilyn Rubin Marianne Tarica Debra Tenenbaum Brittany Tenenbaum Margaret Weiss
BIRTHDAYS
Sunday Adam Kofinas Elena Rae Seligson Jane Durham Sam Galanti
Monday Jami Rechtman Michael Benator Michelle Rich
Tuesday Jamie Cohen Richard Kalson Sandra Roberts
Wednesday Donald J. Pascale
Thursday Alexandra Johns Daniel Tache Louise Benatar Yonah Feiss
Friday Samantha Michelle Leff
ANNIVERSARIES No anniversaries this week.
Meldados
Shabbat Salomon Israel Haham Eliyahu Israel Nace Amato Manuel Renov Sunday Wolf Shetzen
Sisterhood Sandwich and Stretch Sunday, May 4th 10:00a to 12:00p Join OVS Sisterhood to make sandwiches for those in need, enjoy a healthy snack and have a gentle morning stretch led by physical therapist, Julie Gabbai.
Sephardic Dinner to Go Thursday, May 8th 2:00p to 4:00p Dinner To Go includes 1 dozen burekas (potato, spinach or rice, while supplies last), 1 quart Avas (tomato based white bean soup), 1 quart rice, tossed garden salad and 6 biscochos. Pre-orders only by Monday, May 5.
Thank You Shabbat Shabbat, May 10th 8:45a to 12:30p Join us on Shabbat morning as we honor Rabbi Nachum Gutierrez & Rabba Melissa Scholten-Gutierrez for their service to OVS. Kiddush lunch will be served following services.
Shabbat Together Shabbat, May 10th 10:30a to 11:30a Join us for our new Kavanagh Minyan & Children's Services the second Saturday each month. Following these services, we'll join the group in the Sanctuary for Rabbi Hearshen's sermon followed by Kiddush lunch.
It’s as easy as:
Inviting your friends and family for Shabbat Dinner, Taking a few photos, Sharing the photos with OVS & One Table And... Receiving a stipend for each person at your dinner.
Boyos Class Sunday, May 25th 1:00p to 3:00p Join Dan Maslia for his famous Boyos Class. One person per household only. First come, first served. Maximum 20 participants. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to make this special Sephardic dish.
Shavuot Day of Water Play Monday, Jun 2nd 3:00p to 5:00p Join us on Shavuot Day 1, Monday, June 2 for a day of water play and ice cream. All ages welcome.
Building Blocks Sunday School 2025-2026 Sunday, Aug 17th 9:00a to 12:00p Building Blocks Sunday School at Congregation Or VeShalom is for children ages 2 - 12. Areas of focus include prayer, Jewish holidays, Jewish values, modern Hebrew, Hebrew reading, Israel, and Sephardic Jewish culture.
